Comments on: THE GAY DIVORCEE

By: Scott

Scott — Mon, 01 Oct 2012 15:43:53 +0000

You’re right Rich — Richard doesn’t have the luxury of a blog or a dedicated following and these things are never a one way street. Except in this case I think the King County Washington Prosecutors office might very well disagree with you and say that you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about — which you clearly don’t.

By: Rich

Rich — Mon, 01 Oct 2012 12:32:14 +0000

Hate to rain on the sycophants’ parade, but having been in a 12 year relationship that finally imploded and having been around the block a few times, these things are never a one-way street. Richard just doesn’t have the luxury of a blog and a dedicated following.

By: Patrick

Patrick — Tue, 25 Sep 2012 13:01:00 +0000

sorry to hear this ! but at least you’ve made it that long ! 9 years more than I ever have !
wish you both the best, and hope when the dust settles, you remain friends.

By: KJ

KJ — Tue, 25 Sep 2012 04:19:26 +0000

I am very sorry to hear that Scott. The temptation to engage in intense self-examination following such events can weigh on one’s constitution. In many instances, one must simply accept the circumstances in a manner of serenity that can maintain a forward-looking clarity. There is a certain part of us that yearns for acknowledgement of our pain caused by others, but in these modern times, the expectation that another can alter their behaviour to bring closure is tumultuous as it is self-negating. I know from experience the perpetual hope that finally others will bring themselves to the carpet as they have you is a fleeting one. All I can say is that the best form of closure is the one in which you do on your own personal terms. Your club with give you the chance to revitalize yourself, so I have no doubt you will bounce back.

By: Scott

Scott — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 11:02:14 +0000

Speedsausage — you can’t be sympathetic because you’re clearly a fucking asshole.

You don’t know fuck-all about what transpired between me and the ex, but you seem to presume you know that I’m reaping what I’ve sowed in spite of your obvious and abject ignorance.

That, to me, spells asshole in the first degree.

Also, too: grammar? “YOU reap what WE sow.”

Really?

Not only are you an asshole, but you’re also fucking illiterate.

But thanks for playing just the same. Now buh bye.

PS — Your screen name totally identifies you as a douchebag — just sayin’.

By: Speedsausage

Speedsausage — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 11:00:24 +0000

I can’t be sympathetic… As much as the majority is. Divorce sucks but you reap what we sow.

By: Mike

Mike — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 08:15:02 +0000

Stories like this, even about people I don’t know personally, always make me sad.
My advice, for what it is worth, is: with the club, you have enough going on at present. Don’t rush into new commitments (and that includes dogs) until you have had a chance to think things over.
Wishing you (and Richard as well) all the very best for the future.

By: TonkaManOR

TonkaManOR — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 01:08:43 +0000

hmmm, something is not quite right here……. what’s the whole story.

By: mg skene

mg skene — Sat, 22 Sep 2012 07:23:10 +0000

I check in with you daily and was really sorry to read this post. You seem to be friends with most if not all of your ex’s, so maybe someday…

Soundcloud/Barbra Streisand/Try To Win A Freind

By: BeauMec

BeauMec — Sat, 22 Sep 2012 06:46:31 +0000

What a bummer, like christian’s saying – closing a door, opens a window. (or a Mac)
I had not known of the break-up when I sent you two photos of guys and dogs.
I agree, get a dog first, then a few beers, (good ones only) then the boys/whatever…..